Saturday, March 28, 2015

Lazy Saturdays

I am at the point of my life that I am understanding and enjoying my life rhythm.  One of the beats of my life rhythm goes by the tune of Lazy Saturday Mornings.  While others are out and about running household errands, running a 5K or cleaning their house, I am over here enjoying a slow easy morning in my PJs.  Why?

Because after the hustle, emotions and demands of my life, I have adapted a routine for myself that allows me to slow down and rest.  Yup. Even I need rest.  Me who has been told so many times "Girl! How do you do it all!!?"  And one of my secrets that allows me to do so much is to give myself permission to take some down time and rest.  During this rest period of a slow Saturday morning, I find that my body, mind and spirit get rested and that gives me the fuel I need to do "crazy" the rest of the time.

Now don't get me wrong.  My lazy time is brief.  I usually just chill until mid-morning.  Just enough time to watch a movie or read a bit of my book.  Because I am keenly aware that there is a huge difference between resting and sloth (habitual disinclination to exertion).  So awareness to your rhythm is KEY.  Key in understanding that we {need} rest to refuel to allow us to be better humans.  Therefore, we must be very careful to not cross the line and make it a full blown habit of constant laziness.

Do you listen to your rhythm and allow yourself some lazy time to rest and re-energize?  Go on ... tell me.

Thursday, March 26, 2015

So Many Great Things Coming!

So Many Great Things Coming!

Make sure to stay in the KNOW about all that is happening with systematicYOU.
Here are some teasers ... because I am just too excited to not SHARE!

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Adding a new service to systematicYOU ... Client Focused Organizing!  It's not just about organizing the entrepreneur but also organizing their work space for maximum focus and productivity so they can focus on the things that turn into some cha ching!


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Sponsoring the Holistic Chamber April Event!  Get your ticket HERE!

3

Being interviewed by Mom Talk Radio in April ... {whaaat?!}  Yup!  My New Yorican accent in full blast for y'all to listen to!



4

Next Accountability Tribe starts May 2nd!  Space is super limited and coveted.  Make sure to reserve your seat!


5

Hosting an amazing, get ready to ROCK your business summit that will bring leading experts to you from around the country.  Save your seat here!


Sunday, March 15, 2015

Interview with Nina Recarey Obier with Success In Leadership

Interview with Nina Recarey Obier with Success In Leadership

It has been a bit since my last TRIBE interview but I am so happy to start them off again with Lady Nina!  I met Nina over 2 years ago at a chamber breakfast event.  She was working the Toastmasters table.  She was and is such an easy person to just talk with.  As soon as you are in her space, you know that she is focused on you. How awesome to have such a coach and person in your life.  So go on.  Immerse yourself in her story and feel her genuine care for YOU.



What is the name of your business?
Success In Leadership

What product and/or service do you provide?
I am Your Leadership Liaison and Freedom Facilitator. I am a guide or discussion leader. I provide leadership without taking the reins. I serve others through live training classes; self-paced digital courses, private 1-on-1 and group facilitation. My expertise is on leadership, being a leader of one, with a focus on vision, attitude and effective human communication.

With us being more and more wrapped up in social media, effective human communication is on the decline.  I am so happy to present to you Nina.  Someone whose passion is the art of communication; face to face.

When did your business start?
January 2014

Where is your business located?
Pembroke Pines

A fellow Pines neighbor!

What territory does your business serve?
Worldwide

Who does your business serve?
First and foremost women solopreneurs. Although a few good men are drawn to the products and services!

I love how Nina is focusing on the woman solo entrepreneur so that she may not go through this journey solo.

What need does your product or service fulfill for your customers?
The need to have clarity, simplicity and the proper guide as they journey through their business. Whether it is just starting out or at a crossroads.

Nothing better than having a guide!

What DIY tip about your product or service can you share with MY TRIBE?
At a networking event your goal should be to make 3-5 solid connections. The goal is not to sell a product/service, it’s to connect and move the relationship forward. Make a list of your best go to questions. After you ask a question, LISTEN.

Love, love, love! Networking tips.  It is one of my weak points.  I hope it helps you too.

Who is in your support system?
I will be married 25 years in June to a man who is incredibly supportive. I am blessed to have my mom, dad, and sister as my biggest fans! My daughters are my constant inspiration to lead by example!

Nina is so blessed to have such a great support system!

How did you get bitten by the entrepreneurial bug?
After 10 years in the Hotel Business, and all the crazy hours, I was working my dream job as a Training & Development Specialist. While I was creating this amazing career, I was introduced to Direct Sales. I was a Creative Memories consultant to get my product at cost. After my position was downsized, I decided to take Creative Memories to the next level. Perfect timing, my daughters were young, and I was able to be at home and also be a successful business owner for 15 years. When Creative Memories filed for bankruptcy I was at a cross roads, join another Direct Sales company, or live out my dream and passion to facilitate my own courses! And so the journey continues as an entrepreneur!

Nina created her own opportunity.  I admire her.

What is your biggest success up until now?
My most recent success was publishing my book in 11/2014! Listen.Learn.Love.Lead- 40 Simple Messages for an #inspiredlife  What started out as just a to do item, is evolving into spreading the word of my truly simple messages that literally have changed my life.

I need to get her book!  Anyone want to read it along with me and then we can discuss it.  I bet Lady Nina would love to join us.

What has been your biggest challenge?
When I was in Direct Sales, you are in business for yourself but not by yourself. You have a national company behind you doing all the marketing, website and more. As a solopreneur, you fill all of those roles!

Having come from DS (direct sales) myself, I totally understand.  Thank goodness for ladies like Nina that are there to help us femmepreneurs.

What is your favorite thing about humanity?
I love having real conversations with people. I love connecting with people just because, not for arterial motives. I truly believe every interaction with a person is for a reason. We may not realize the reason right away, but I am always open to the lesson I either give or receive!

Just so you know … Out of all the personal questions, Nina picked the one about humanity.  It does NOT surprise.

Where do you most want to travel, but have never been?
New Zealand. The immense beauty that God created there has always fascinated me. I love being outdoors just soaking in the landscape. It always makes me feel so grateful!

Hmmm … I need to make sure that I fit in her suitcase.  Tee hee hee.

What about being an entrepreneur do you love?
My freedom. Freedom to push myself. Freedom to guide others. Freedom to work with my ideal clients who share my heart and passion.

I am detecting a common core here.

What is your why?
Human communication is a lost art. I know people want to connect with people. God put us on this earth together for a positive reason. I am determined not to solely rely on technology for my relationships!

She needs to teach this at schools!

Any tips you'd like to share about networking?
This is my passion. I actually created a digital course on this very subject, 7 Ways to Network to Gain Networth. First and foremost I believe you should lead with you the person, not you, your product or service. You will do this by putting pen to paper and doing the work to really know your values, character traits, strengths and weaknesses.

With each interview, I learn something NEW!  I need to chat with Lady Nina (again!).  My TRIBE would love to have her lead this workshop.

Any other tips, special messages or words of encouragement that you would like to share with MY TRIBE?
Starting and operating your own business is a process that is in constant flow. Stay the course. Give it time. Create relationships. A step forward is a step. Constant action is one of the main keys. Spend plenty of time putting pen to paper. Just thinking about the steps is not as powerful.

Special offer

Is this an exclusive special offer just for MY TRIBE?
YES!

OK TRIBE … this one is just for YOU!

How can MY TRIBE get your deal?
Email info@ninaobier.com, with the subject “Leader of the Pack!”


How long will this special last?
3 months from the posting of my interview

Just in case let’s do the math … 3/15/15 to 6/15/15! 

To contact Nina, here is her info J  And trust me, she is high techie techie!

Web:
www.ninaobier.com
Email:
info@ninaobier.com
Phone:
954-540-6990
Facebook
https://www.facebook.com/LeadershipLiaison
Instagram
Nobier
LinkedIN
www.linkedin.com/in/nobier
Pinterest
www.pinterest.com/obier
Google+
NinaObier
YouTube
NinaObier

I really do hope you enjoyed this interview and the amazing insight that this {lovely} woman entrepreneur has brought to you.  I love to see that we are not alone in our experiences, fears, hopes and dreams!
Happy Time Management (a.k.a YOU management)
Tabby


Thursday, February 19, 2015

Tuesday, February 17, 2015

Interview with Michelle Reynolds with Back 2 Basics Family

  

I met Michelle last year.  We were helping out with a business conference event.  I had such a BLAST hanging out and working the event with her.  She is not one to shy away from work, can anticipate where she is needed and she gives it her all.  I can see how those traits can be such great assets for her Back 2 Basics Family biz!  Her background as a teacher, mother and a caregiver gives her great insight.  I just wish I had known her back when I was a young mother.  She could had helped me through some of the issues I had faced back then.  Luckily, my kids are resilient and survived me.  LOL!  I share this post so gladly with my mama entrepreneurs because how great is it for young moms now to have a Michelle in their lives?
 

What is the name of your business?
Back 2 Basics Family

Love how you get the idea just from the name! 


What product and/or service do you provide?
I provide educational seminars, mommy masterminds and support groups, parent and educator trainings.

Parents need all the support they can get because kids do not come with instructions :/


When did your business start?
I started Back 2 Basics Childcare a licensed in-home daycare in 2008. I had a very successful business and was starting to branch into Back 2 Basics Family in 2012. With many unexpected events happening in my life, I had to close the daycare because it was in my home and my children and husband and I needed to reconnect.  At that moment Back 2 Basics Family went on hold as I explored how to get it off the ground without the daycare base. I also took this time to try a few additional things to make sure I was living within my life’s purpose.

It takes someone with a gentile heart to be a caregiver.


What territory does your business serve?
South East Broward although I have traveled to Boynton and West Palm. I do online as well.


Who does your business serve?
Specifically, parents that have children birth through 5.

Children that have more challenging behaviors are my specialty as I used to teach these children in 1st grade in my past life as a teacher and I see where they shine and what their behavior is communicating. I have been highly studies in Sensory Play and have a Productive Play course that I teach.

Infants and that juggling act is also a specialty of mine as it is one of those things that just comes easy to me and I am able to organize and get infants on a schedule that works for them and mom!

I love working with entrepreneurs because I have a business knack as I grew up in an entrepreneurial household and I’m constantly trying to find a faster, more effective, more efficient way to do everything from emptying the dishwasher to completing billing.
I do have programs for beginning and struggling readers up to 2nd grade.


What need does your product or service fulfill for your customers

Sanity, time and love!
All we really want is to be a good parent and connect with our children. All our children want is to be loved by us.
I hear all the time people say they want to slow down and bring back the basics, I can help you do that!

OM-geee!  I don’t have little ones but I need sanity, time and love tooooo!  I think I need to get Michelle to re-consider me as a client.  Tee hee hee.


What DIY tip about your product or service can you share with MY TRIBE?
Really think about the things you do during the day and how you can make them more effective.  Take dishes for example. Who moans and groans about unloading the dishwasher?  The actual fact is it takes (or should take) 2 minutes or less to unload. I have this routine that I think may help you.

In the morning, the first thing I do as my coffee finished brewing is unload the dishwasher. I have a few reasons for this.

1.     I will have an empty dishwasher all day that I have trained my husband and kids to rinse their dishes and place them in the dishwasher instead of on the counter or in the sink.  Dishes out of sight and my kitchen looks clean.

2.     It’s a wonderful thing to do right in the morning as a stretching exercise. Reaching down into the dishwasher, reaching up to put the plates away. Stretching my body this way allows my muscles to awaken and come to life.

As my family fills the dishwasher all day I make sure that they last thing I do before bed is to RUN it!

Try it for 1 week and let me know how you feel!

I am going to stretch in the AM as I make my café con leche.  How many weird looks will my teens give me?  Message me your bet.

This was Michelle’s additional message to all in MY TRIBE.

Simplify your life!

Bring back the basics and meet your child’s emotional and educational needs.

Who is in your support system?
Husband and 2 kids Jay is 5 and Kylie is 10. My parents are right around the corner from us and very involved in our lives.

How awesome to have her family as her main support!

How did you get bitten by the entrepreneurial bug?
When I was 5, my dad had me working in his grocery store cleaning shelves and such and I worked up from there doing things in the back and taking care of the employee’s.

When I was 12 my father sold the store and we moved to Florida from Canada. It was his dream to own a small hotel on the Beach in Hollywood… and here they are Manta Ray Inn was bought and I worked there cleaning rooms, managing the office, taking care of guests and making reservations. At 17 I ran the hotel while my parents would go back to Canada in the summer.
After I went into teaching, I realized I liked teaching because it was like my own business and I was able to do what the students needed as long as we got to a specific place by the end of the year. My classroom was my own business. When the state and county started taking that away from teachers and telling us what we were going to do, when we were going to do it – I was out. I will NOT do things in a specific way when it is NOT right for the children in front of me. Remember, I taught the behavior issues and the lowest of the low students and what worked for them was different than what worked for other classrooms.

While unhappy in the classroom with the mandates that were coming down from the top, my husband and I decided to have another baby. I was beside myself because there was nothing in the area that was what I was looking for. I wanted academics but I also wanted my child to not be a number. I wanted the social and emotional needs of my child met as well. I wanted my child to be well cared for, have fun and learn through play (Back 2 Basics). There was no such place. I found all academic places, I found all play no structure no learning and a lot of TV, but nothing that combined both.

That’s when I decided I would open a licensed Family Child Care Home and eventually grew it into a Large Family Child Care Home – 12 children enrolled with 2 employees and myself.  It was an amazing structure and I created my own curriculum. I provided organic homemade meals, the children had uniforms and I even did the laundry for the parents. It’s was a full concierge service academic learning center.  I had plans to franchise and would still be open to doing so in the future.

Her upbringing was such an influence.  I hope all my femmepreneurs involve their kids.  Let them see you be THE EXAMPLE!

What is your biggest success up until now?
Owning and succeeding with my first business the daycare, has been my biggest success. Seeing that it is possible and that people do want what I provide. Also seeing that it truly made a difference in parents and children’s lives. Those children became my children!

Anyone who impacts the lives of children is a success in my book!

What has been your biggest challenge?
My biggest challenge is selling myself. I know I’m good. I know I’m one of the best and I’m pretty darn confident about it – until you ask me to sell my service. Selling a spot in the daycare was one thing and the value was there – making it more personal is really challenging me.

We must all see the value in ourselves and in turn ask what we are worth without shame or second guessing!

Any funny stories you want to share so other ladies don't feel like it only happens to them?
I worked with kids – everything was funny! (I bet!)

As a mom, someone that works with kids and someone that will go far enough to even say I am an expert – I will STILL tell you I screw up all the time. I don’t care how much of an expert you are, when you work with kids there will be times you will shake your head and ask yourself if you just really just said/did that. It’s OK, we are human!

We all need to remember we are HUMAN in all our aspects of our lives!

Pepsi or Coke?
Oh NO!!!  Shhhhh… Coke
My parent’s best friend is actually one of the head managers in Pepsi Cola Canada.
The SHAME!  Sorry Bob!

Everybody promise … no telling Bob!

If you could sing one song on American Idol, what would it be?  Why that song?
The Climb by Miley Cyrus. 

I took singing lessons with my daughter a year ago and this was the song we practiced. I have related to the lyrics of this song since becoming an entrepreneur and still feel it fits my life.  Besides having lessons was the best way for me to find my voice and I wish I could have continued! I believe this is something every child should experience.

My daughter and I used to sing that all the time!  We need a quartet!

What about being an entrepreneur do you love?
I’ve never been a good employee. If I see something needs to be done I do it. If I feel there is a fast, effective and efficient way to get something done I will do it that way. If you can’t give me a good argument as to why not to do it that way – I will not change it.

I love being the leader and not the follower!

Love it!

What is your why?
Our children are our future and the educational system we have in place to help new moms and children through the age of 5 is frightful.

These are the most important years and the people watching/educating these children are making $10 or less an hour ~ would you expect quality from them?

Someone has to take a stand for these children!

Yes! Yes!  Yes!  Our kids are the future.  We must do all we can to influence them for the sake of humanity.

What value does your business bring to your life?
Meeting children’s emotional, social and academic needs is really all the value that life has! That’s what I bring!

Bring it baby!

What is your favorite gadget or app that others entrepreneurs might want to check out?
Teamwork.com
LOVE it!
Ooooh!  Must check it out!

Special offer
I do have a Mommy Mastermind starting in March. I would love to offer your mommy readers a FREE one hour discovery session with me! 

Mommy Mastermind ~
$28 monthly & every month you will receive:
•       Teleclass/Webinar/Video:  1/ Per Month
•       Group Teleconference Mommy Mastermind:  1/Per Week

During our Mommy Masterminds each participant will be able to share success and challenges from the week. Loving and nonjudgmental advice from other moms on the call will allow each participant to grow and have unconditional support.  These groups will be limited in number
Plus
•       One hour private telephone sessions with me: 1/Per Month
•       Bonus Call/Webinar/Video from a Family Expert: 1/Per Month

How can MY TRIBE get your deal?
Email Michelle at michelle@michelle-reynolds.com
Make sure to tell her the Promo Code SystematicYOU

How long will this special last?
1 month from 2/17/15!
Only 1 month!  Hurry and get it.

To contact Michelle, here is her info J



I really do hope you enjoyed this interview and the amazing insight that this {lovely} woman entrepreneur has brought to you.  I love to see that we are not alone in our experiences, fears, hopes and dreams!
Tune in for next week’s blog!!  You do not want to miss it!

Happy Time Management (a.k.a YOU management)
Tabby


Friday, February 6, 2015

Your brain is not a POST-IT!



We all love those colorful little sticky papers.  I will admit it.  I have an addiction to them but that is a personal problem that I have with office supplies in general.  So what do I mean by my title that your brain is not a POST-IT? 

Well let’s think about what that little sticky paper is meant to be used for.  You jot something down quick and stick it somewhere to remind you, to point something out, to make note of something … TEMPORARILY!  Those sticky notes do not have crazy glue on them.  They are not meant to be permanent.  They have a low bonding adhesive so you can remove it and throw it away as soon as you are done with it.  They are disposable.  

The same thing happens with your brain.  A flash of an idea, a remembered to-do, an upcoming appointment … all those are just temporary mental POST-ITs if your only way of tracking things is your brain.  And what happens to a POST-IT when you move it around too much.  The darn thing stops sticking and eventually you lose it.  That is the same thing that happens with your thoughts in your head.  You keep moving them around because of shifts in priority, new ideas or emotional stress and so on and on and on and eventually you lose that thought in that over loaded pretty little brain of yours and you forget!

So what can you do to not rely on just your mental POST-ITs?
Here is an idea … WRITE IT DOWN!  



Get yourself a planner or a calendar app for your smart phone or maybe just an old-fashioned composition notebook and start keeping track of what you need to remember in one place!  Now keeping your gadget of choice with you at the ready to accept your thought will take time to build that habit muscle but with time you can do it!  And once you start getting the thoughts out of your head you will see your productivity, creativity and sleep quality increase.  Yes ladies!  You will sleep better because your brain will stop talking to itself!

  


In time, you will forget less and do more!  WHAAAAAAT!?  Oh yes!  And all because you stopped using your brain for miscellaneous crap.  

Go on cheer with me.  This is a BRILLIANT idea!


Happy Time Management (a.k.a. YOU management)
Tabby


Tribe Quote # 4

By e.claudette freeman