Monday, May 25, 2015

Interview with Sindy Eugene

Global Youth Empowerment Movement
I met Sindy over a year ago.  We both had vendor tables at a mastermind event.  After setting up my little table, I did my usual round of visiting with the other vendors.  I chatted with her for a few.  She spoke of her youth program which led me to tell her about my kids and how I have prepared now for their future.  I remember her words … “You are doing a good job mom”.  As you read on, I hope you can see the value that her services can have in our youth – our future!

  

 

What is the name of your business?
Global Youth Empowerment Movement, Inc. which includes My V.O.I.C.E Matters International
What product and/or service do you provide?
We have both educationally and socially inspired products such as apparel and media.  Our services are both virtual and local to include workshops, programs, consulting and conferences.  These services are geared to motivate all participants as they strengthen their today while securing their tomorrow. Our resources will positively impact their lives academically, socially, developmentally and spiritually. Our services are designed to meet those needs while enabling us to add value and support them as they transition to becoming future leaders in our community.
When did your business start?
This is our fifth calendar year (July of 2010).
Where is your business located?
We are located in Miami, Florida
What territory does your business serve?
Our services are now both in the US and International.
International baby!!!!!
Who does your business serve?
We serve families, parents, children, churches entities, for-profit, non-profit, educational entities and local programs.  
What need does your product or service fulfill for your customers?
Our products and services fulfill the academic, social and spiritual needs of our customers.
What DIY tip about your product or service can you share with MY TRIBE?
Never produce a product that you yourself will not or cannot use or benefit from.
Yes Sindy is so right!!  How else can you believe in it or see how it really works or what improvements could be made?
Who is in your support system?
My family and my inner circle of confidants.
I like that word Lady Sindy!  CONFIDANT.
How did you get bitten by the entrepreneurial bug?
Having the desire to increase my impact outside the realms of corporate job.  Although, we did a lot, I knew there was more that my passion and purpose required of me.
My Comment
What is your biggest success up until now?
Increasing our partnership organizations by 5% and participants to over 15% within our first five years in existence.
What has been your biggest challenge?
Getting participants to take advantage of resources we connect them to consistently.
Any funny stories you want to share so other ladies don't feel like it only happens to them?
Of course.  There was a time when speaking with a group of students I accidently used the wrong term the wrong way.  It was a term such as “fleek” or “shotout” and they fell out laughing.  You see, you must be relatable to the audience you are speaking to or demographic you are serving.  Sometimes you might have bloopers that lighten up the atmosphere.
Hahaha!  If that is the case I will endear myself to all I come in contact with!!   Thank you Sindy for bringing this new perspective to my bloopers.
If you were on an island and could only bring three things, what would you bring?
I would bring my pillow, toilet tissue, and deodorant.
First person to say TP!  Smart girl because leaves can be rough!
If money was no object, what would you do all day?
Travel doing missions trip around the world to teach children that being a Christian can be fun and fulfilling journey.
Love Sindy’s global vision.
What is your favorite thing about humanity?
The ability to tap into our inner creativity and create new and exciting things.
You're a new addition to the crayon box, what color would you be and why?
I would be the color Sindy which is a cross between blue (trust), orange (fun) and green (life).
Love the color descriptions.
If there was a movie produced about your life, who would play you and why?
I would choose Cecily Tyson because she is a dynamic actress who always play a role of importance, character, family values and wisdom.
Wow!  Cecily Tyson always plays such amazing characters!
Where do you most want to travel, but have never been?
Egypt to see a part of history in real life!!! To really see the pyramids, statues are very intriguing to me.
If you could be a superhero, what power would you possess?
The power to save and erase ALL children who were or are being sexually assaulted or raped.  I would save them and heal their hearts, mind and body from traumatic experience.
Pepsi or Coke?
Sadly Coke.
If you could sing one song on American Idol, what would it be?  Why that song?
Promise by Y’anna Crawely
Beautiful lyrics!  Take the time NOW to listen.
What about being an entrepreneur do you love?
Being free to operate in my fullest capacity in a way that I know is needed for the population of people I serve.
What is your why?
Broken homes, misplaced family identities, and children without a sense of hope!!!!
Reading this makes me thankful that I am trying to provide stability to my own children and it is a reminder that not all children have the same.
What value does your business bring to your life?
It fuels my passion to stay innovative, ignites my desire to dream big and my tenacity to be a better version of me than I was the day before.
Loving her word – TENACITY!
How do you track your appointments & to-do's?
My GOD a CALENDAR!!!!! I am soooo old school that I must have a hand held calendar because an electronic one is not going to cut it!!!!
A fellow paper planner addict!  Yessssss. 
What is your favorite gadget or app that others entrepreneurs might want to check out?
My favorite gadget is my iPad because it allows me to be effective and impactful in and out of the office.  I am able to do almost everything on there and that is awesome!!!
What social media forum has been most successful for your business?
Both Facebook and Instagram.
What is your best time management tip?
Never leave what you can do today for tomorrow because you never know the curve balls that await you the next day.
This is a GREAT perspective!!!
What are the biggest time wasters we entrepreneurs get caught up in?
Social media.  It is best to higher or bring on an intern that does that only. Or automate EVERYTHING!!!!
How do you continue to meet new clients?
Through networking events, referrals and through testimonials of previous or current clients.
Any tips you'd like to share about networking?
Be intentional when networking.  Do not just go and collect cards.  Have an idea, purpose, intent for going and expectation.  If attending the event, does not fit into the overall objective for you that particular quarter, than do not go.  Strategy is key!!!
BE INTENTIONAL!   Sindy’s words once again are ideal!
Any special messages you'd like to share with MY TRIBE?
No matter what tribe you are in, always remember to be you.  You are the brand and you are an individual!!!!

To contact Sindy, here is her info J
Global Youth Empowerment Movement
Stay connected with us via: Facebook Page: Sindy, The Student Pathfinder
Twitter: #Sindy_Eugene
Instagram: @studentpathfinder
Pinterest: StudentPathfinder 

I really do hope you enjoyed this interview and the amazing insight that this {lovely} woman entrepreneur has brought to you.  I love to see that we are not alone in our experiences, fears, hopes and dreams!
Tune in for next blog where we will chat with Sara Lopez, with Simple Solutions by Sara.

Happy Time Management (a.k.a YOU management)
Tabby


Saturday, April 18, 2015

My interview with Mom Talk Radio

systematicYOU was interviewed on Mom Talk Radio

#snoopydance


I had the absolute pleasure of being interviewed for Mom Talk Radio earlier in April.  Talk about being nervous!  But it was so much fun doing it scared and my interviewer Marion, in for Maria T. Bailey, did such an amazing job leading me through the interview that after it was just easy peasy.  

Just so you know, I did this interview on my cell phone while sitting at the parking lot of that tropical Pollo place during my lunch hour.  Yup!  I managed to get this one in!

So thank you Mom Talk Radio for this great opportunity and learning experience.

You can listen to the full interview on the Mom Talk Radio website.  Fast-forward to 12:30 to listen to my segment.  #snoopydance with me y'all


Friday, April 17, 2015

How you made them feel ...

Maya Angelou got it right ... “I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.”

Maybe just like me this is a lesson that came to Lady Maya later in her life but I hope that by sharing this bit of wisdom with you NOW, it might save you time and help you build stronger relationships as of today and always.

So go on and be quiet then observe and listen to those around you.  Whether they are chatting with you in person, posting on Facebook or sending you a text.  In return offer kind words and gestures.  Do not quickly jump in with words that perpetuate grief, negativity & pity in hopes to turn the attention from them to you.  Go out there with a servant's heart and help someone feel better, loved, cherished, appreciated, welcomed, understood, inspired ... be good to someone.  Be the type of person that Maya talks of ... be remembered for how you made them {feel}!

Thursday, April 16, 2015

Interview with Evon Reyes with Fearless Fighting Females

Interview with Evon Reyes with

Fearless Fighting Females

Evon is a high school peep of mine y’all.  We reconnected after a while on Facebook.  I was so impressed with the pictures of Evon giving classes to college girls to defend themselves that I just HAD to ask her to give us an interview.  Even though she is up in the NYC, I hope it motivates you to teach yourself and the young girls in your life to learn self-defense!



 

What is the name of your business?
Fearless Fighting Females
This name is EMPOWERING!  Can you dig it?
What product and/or service do you provide?
Fearless Fighting Females Self Defense & Empowerment classes educate and empower students for today’s world.  During the class, participants learn the six basic principles of self-defense including moves that help students be more aware of their strengths and how to use those skills to defend themselves.  In this class, methods for real-life scenarios are taught that are easy to use and remember.
Loving how Evon has tailored her class for TODAY’S world.  It isn’t anything like what I grew up in … not calling myself old but man … things sure have changed!
When did your business start?
My business began in 2010
Where is your business located?
In New York City
My hometown!
What territory does your business serve?
Currently NY and the tri-state area but would love to expand to other states.
Ooooh!  Let’s get enough interest going to make it worthwhile for Evon to come down and give us a class!!!
Who does your business serve?
Girls as young as 5 and women as old as 80.
I am somewhere in there and I ain’t telling!
What need does your product or service fulfill for your customers?
Educates and empowers them to defend themselves and to handle themselves in the worst of situations.
Love how FFF will help us prepare for the worst situation.  It might just save a life.
What DIY tip about your product or service can you share with MY TRIBE?
Knowing that you should always even in the worst scenario (rape is eminent) fight back.  It has been proven that 50% of the time the predator will retreat when you fight back and that they will not hurt you anymore if you do fight back.  SO FIGHT BACK.
Wow!  Never thought of it this way.  I am Marine trained but can you imagine not being ready to fight back.  Will you freeze?
Who is in your support system?
I would say my husband is a big supporter of what I do and has my back but I also have lots of cheerleaders behind me, including my big sister and some close friends that are like my framily.
Love me some FRamily!  Shout out to my Pola, Thelma and Sylvia!!
How did you get bitten by the entrepreneurial bug?
A mixture of volunteering my time and being told you know people will pay for this service to the fact that my corporate job was eliminated due to downsizing.  But I believe everything happens for a reason.
Paying to do what you know makes a difference!
What is your biggest success up until now?
That I have taken a business that started as a volunteer basis and turned it into a service people will pay for.
Way to go Evon!
What has been your biggest challenge?
Not getting more regularity to the classes I teach.  My bookings currently are sporadic.
It happens to the best of us.  The thing is to keep approaching possible customers and organizations that will be interested in our amazing services.  And more thing … never ever forget our services are amazing and changing lives!
Any funny stories you want to share so other ladies don't feel like it only happens to them?
I was teaching a group of older ladies (60+) and was showing them what to do if someone goes to choke you.  One of the old ladies went to choke me and pushed me back against a wall (she had a fire in her).  Obviously I could have disarmed her rather quickly but took the high road and let her push me to the wall.  She kept saying you see, you see it won’t work, I can choke you how am I going to protect myself.  Two days later I received a note from the lady who hired me to teach the class and loved what she mentioned.
Thank you for your patience with some of our more "energetic" members who had trouble following directions; I'm forever grateful that when you were push-choked by one and kicked by another you refrained from turning the full force of your skills on them!
Wow!  Great constraint.  Not sure if I would had been as graceful … tee hee hee.
Anything else you would like to add?
As women we need to remember that we need to help uplift one another with positivity.  I always say Girls Compete, but Women, Women we empower.  I always try to instill that to the girls and ladies that take classes with me and anyone i encounter (fellow women entrepreneurs).  Recently working with someone whose business is similar to mine in that we both want to educate and empower (common ground) but have a different focus in the way we do that and how we can do it together.
Bee-A-ooo-tee-full!
If money was no object, what would you do all day?
Educate and empower girls by bringing my program to public schools, after school programs and underserved communities.
Where do you most want to travel, but have never been?
I would love to visit Greece.  I love visiting places that have a rich history and culture.  I hope to travel there one day.
Take me with youuuuuuuuuuuu!
Pepsi or Coke?
Neither, I do not drink soda, just seltzer.
What about being an entrepreneur do you love?
I love doing what I love, I have such a passion for teaching and knowing that what I teach can make a real difference in someone’s life is empowering for me.
I just know that Evon’s teachings will SAVE someone’s life!
What is your why?
No matter how exhausted I might be when I teach a class I leave feeling energized and empowered.
Doing what you truly love gives that extra energy boost.
What value does your business bring to your life?
Empowerment
How do you track your appointments & to-do's?
Respond
My Comment
What is your favorite gadget or app that others entrepreneurs might want to check out?
On a paper calendar/to do list (old school)
Evon is using a Passion Planner.  Go and check it out.  If I didn’t make my own, I would more than likely be using that one!!
What are the biggest time wasters we entrepreneurs get caught up in?
Sometimes when I am home I get distracted with the things that need to get done for my home and my kids.
Oh yes!!! But the secret is setting boundaries and sticking to a schedule.  The kids an hubby take some training but it can be DONE!
How do you continue to meet new clients?
Health fairs and thru past clients, recently doing some cold calling and sending out letters.
You go girl!  Picking up that phone for those cold calls are … ugh!
Any tips you'd like to share about networking?
So important.  Need to get better at it, but having your elevator pitch and letting your passion show thru is your best bet.
How can MY TRIBE reach you?
fearlessff.info@gmail.com
347-351-6782
I really do hope you enjoyed this interview and the amazing insight that this {lovely} woman entrepreneur has brought to you.  I love to see that we are not alone in our experiences, fears, hopes and dreams!
Tune in for next week’s blog where we will chat with Sindy Eugene – The Student Pathfinder!

Happy Time Management (a.k.a YOU management)
Tabby


Saturday, April 11, 2015

An ATTA girl moment

We are all familiar with the "atta boys" but what about an "atta girl"? No. Well now you will be ... Tabby's version of an ATTA GIRL.

We work our butts off being a:
Mama
Wife of that man in the house
Lover
Companion of games
Provider of meals
Spiritual leader
Professional clothes cleaner
Maid
Pet alpha
Missing sock detective
Problem solver
Healer of runny noses and boo boo's
Royal title of payer of bills
To name a few ........

And that is just being a mom and a wife.  Nevermind if you work outside of the home or even if you are crazy enough (like me) to ALSO try to start your own business.  (insert that shocked emoji)

So with all of these demands on us it so easy to lose track of well ... US!!  So here is what I teach every gal in my accountability support group.

ONCE A WEEK, SCHEDULE AN ATTA GIRL.  Yes. I say schedule to make sure you find the time for it.

Definiton of an ATTA GIRL:
A moment for a woman to do something that is just for her and no one else. 

Examples of an ATTA GIRL:
* A mani or pedi or both!
* A glass of your favorite wine while reading a book
* Meditation
* A walk in the beach or park
* Buying a new blouse
* A dinner with your BFF
* Gifting yourself a bouquet of flowers

Do something small (or big if you can afford it) that makes your heart happy and gives your soul a lift.  You need it.  In those moments you will find you and be that gal that is YOU and not what someone else expects you to be.  So enjoy along with me and my accountability group gals that ATTA GIRL moment.  Share with me what are you planning to do.  I might wanna do it too.

(Since I am in Orlando this week at MegaCon getting my geek on ... the post image had to be but of course a little syfy!!)

Sunday, April 5, 2015

Sunday FUNday ... planning for the week ahead.

Weren't the word creating people clever when they made the word PLANNING out of PLAN?  Because the thing about planning is that you have to actually PLAN! 

Oooh. Did I just hit a nerve?  For some probably.  I am an accountability coach (at times more like drill instructor ... the caring kind) and the fabulous women entrepreneurs in my accountability support group know that today (SUNDAY) is the day to sit and plan the week ahead.

Let me illustrate ... you will be driving across country.  You can do it either two ways:

1 - NO PLANNING.
You just get in your car and drive.  And the next day remembered you had an appointment with a client.  Wups. Lost that client.  You didn't check the car's maintenance status so along the way you broke down.  You didn't know what roads to take so you were heading more north than west so making it across country was comprised of lots of u-turns, wrong roads & lost time.  No panties because you forgot to pack 1/2 the stuff you really needed but you have 12 pairs of socks and 3 spools of floss though!  Sleeping in your car with no shower because you could not find a hotel with a vacancy because you didn't make a reservation ahead of time.  Dramatic no? But you get the picture.

>>OR<<

2 - YES PLANNING.
Prior to taking off on your cross-country trip that started on the 15th because that was the day you cleared your calendar to be free of commitments to enjoy the ride.  You called AAA and mapped out a ride.  So you knew exactly what I road connected to what state road.  You even figured a few spots along the way on your bucket list to see.  You had figured out about what time you would get to what town and found the cutest B&Bs to spend the night.  The car gave you no problems because it was in tip top shape because you took it in to the shop before you left. And you had plenty of clean panties because you packed all you needed.  {sigh} What a freaking fabulous trip!

So which of these two trips would you rather go on??  #2?  Oh yesssssss. ♡ smart girl ♡ But did you know that your every day journey also needs PLANNING like our cross country imaginary trip so that it can go as best as you can control (key words there *can control* because sometimes "it" just happens) and to make sure you are indeed going in the right direction for your life?  The best habit that I learned was to take time out on Sunday and plan my week ahead.  That was over 20 years ago when I went to a Franklin Covey 7 Habits class.  Oh yeah ... I was only 2 then but I was an ambitious toddler.  Hahaha.

Seriously.  Take the time on Sunday (15-30 minutes y'all that is it) to plan the week ahead so that you can head in the right direction on your journey of life.  It is so easy to wing it but you could be wasting precious time and not really enjoy that ride to the fullest.

Happy Sunday FUNday planning.
{hugs}
Tabby


Saturday, March 28, 2015

Lazy Saturdays

I am at the point of my life that I am understanding and enjoying my life rhythm.  One of the beats of my life rhythm goes by the tune of Lazy Saturday Mornings.  While others are out and about running household errands, running a 5K or cleaning their house, I am over here enjoying a slow easy morning in my PJs.  Why?

Because after the hustle, emotions and demands of my life, I have adapted a routine for myself that allows me to slow down and rest.  Yup. Even I need rest.  Me who has been told so many times "Girl! How do you do it all!!?"  And one of my secrets that allows me to do so much is to give myself permission to take some down time and rest.  During this rest period of a slow Saturday morning, I find that my body, mind and spirit get rested and that gives me the fuel I need to do "crazy" the rest of the time.

Now don't get me wrong.  My lazy time is brief.  I usually just chill until mid-morning.  Just enough time to watch a movie or read a bit of my book.  Because I am keenly aware that there is a huge difference between resting and sloth (habitual disinclination to exertion).  So awareness to your rhythm is KEY.  Key in understanding that we {need} rest to refuel to allow us to be better humans.  Therefore, we must be very careful to not cross the line and make it a full blown habit of constant laziness.

Do you listen to your rhythm and allow yourself some lazy time to rest and re-energize?  Go on ... tell me.